In life there are days/weeks/months/years when we feel challenged, maybe overwhelmed, by our circumstances--maybe in our marriage, with our children, as a result of the death of loved ones, on our jobs or due to periods of unemployment, because of illness, as caregivers for loved ones, etc. When the circumstances continue for an extended period of time, we may begin to believe things will always be that way. But as older people used to say when I was growing up, "there's never been a storm that didn't end." Of course, storms can leave damage in their wake. While we may not be able to control the storms, we can control how we respond to them and their damage.

One way we can control our response to life's storms is by asking for, or accepting, help--something that seems difficult for many of us. But why?
Maybe we genuinely believe we can handle things on our own. Maybe we're control freaks and believe no one can handle the situation as well as us. Maybe we're private and prefer not to share our problems. Perhaps we're ashamed of our circumstances. Maybe we're too proud to let others know we need help. Maybe we're more comfortable giving than receiving help. Or, maybe we like to play the martyr and want everyone to know the sacrifices we're making. Maybe we don't know how to make room for others to help. Maybe we just don't know how to ask for help.

No matter the situation, it's important that we ask for and accept help, when needed. As it's said, no man/woman is an island. We need each other. It's a blessing to give; it's a blessing to receive. When we try to do everything on our own, we take the risk of becoming angry, bitter, resentful, frustrated, discouraged, and mentally and/or physically drained. So, let's let others know we want and/or need help. Perhaps seeking help during our storms will encourage others to do the same.



 


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Estelle
08/26/2014 10:18pm

OK, I think I know that person. She is a work in progress. It wont be easy, but GOD can!!! ><))))>

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Natalie
08/26/2014 11:37pm

Unfortunately, I know her, too, but help is on the way. :-)

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Doreen
08/27/2014 10:27am

ME,ME,ME. I know I have to do better. You've been in my head haven't you? (smile) Thanks.

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Natalie
08/27/2014 10:54am

:-) Based on the responses I've received, this seems to be an issue many of us share.

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